7 Habits

“One of the most compelling books ever written, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, has empowered and inspired readers for over 25 years.”

This book goes into great detail on how to develop personal effectiveness.  If we are put in a situation, we must be able to change ourselves and our perception.  So what are the 7 habits that are possessed by highly effective people?

1. Be Proactive: Take responsibility for one’s own life

2. Begin with the End in Mind: Reconnect with passion and purpose

3. Put First Things First: Identify and prioritize tasks based on importance

4. Think Win-Win: Work effectively and efficiently with others to achieve results.

5. Seek First to Understand: Listen empathetically and understand people

6. Synergize: Work together and value the differences in another person’s perspective. "When one plus one equals three or more and the whole is great than the sum of its parts."

7. Sharpen the Saw: Take time for yourself through physical, social, emotional, mental, and spiritual renewal

 

After looking over these 7 habits, the fifth habit has most meaning to me.  I’ve always been a good listener for as long as I remember.  Instead of waiting for my turn to talk, I genuinely listen to others, trying to understand their perspective.  I avoid judgement as best as I can, because I remind myself that everyone is human and no one is perfect.  I’d rather build them up and avoid hurting their feelings.  As most people say, I don’t have a mean bone in my body!  I am naturally good at paying attention, providing feedback, and I try my best to respond appropriately.  This is a habit I am naturally good at! 

So with that said, here are some questions to think about: Which of the 7 habits has the most meaning for you? Do you have good or bad habits?  Do you want to better yourself?  Do you want to succeed in life?  If you’d like some motivation, go give this book a read!